{"id":27977,"date":"2025-02-18T20:58:54","date_gmt":"2025-02-18T20:58:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/luchat8.com\/you-act-like-those-around-you-surround-yourself-with-positive-people\/"},"modified":"2025-02-19T19:19:04","modified_gmt":"2025-02-19T19:19:04","slug":"you-act-like-those-around-you-surround-yourself-with-positive-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/luchat8.com\/en\/you-act-like-those-around-you-surround-yourself-with-positive-people\/","title":{"rendered":"You act like those around you \u2013 surround yourself with positive people"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dear people, do you really know why it is so good to have a built positive attitude in life? Why is it good to be an optimist? And why is it so important not to fall under someone else\u2019s influence, especially if that attitude is contrary to our positive attitude?<\/p>\n

Or, if you are not sure, in your personal attitude (or observations about something) why is the environment for positive people so important?<\/p>\n

How to choose the right people for us?<\/h2>\n

Each of us in our growing up, depending on what our parents are like and the environment that surrounds us, acquires our own beliefs about life and with those beliefs, we build our life. The experiences of our parents, combined with upbringing, can largely dictate the direction of our lives. The same goes for the friends we have chosen, as well as the people around us: our associates, business partners, colleagues, neighbors, people from the joint association, in fact, those with whom we spend the most time.<\/p>\n

Whatever we choose, to build in our lives, through everyone around us, the right answer is POSITIVE PEOPLE! Are we pessimists, with a little self-confidence, or do we have a problem in the initiative, if we see everything black in our path if we are negative<\/a>, dissatisfied, scared\u2026<\/p>\n

But even if we are optimists, who sometimes give up on our way, there should be positive people next to us, who will remind us not to give up, who will give us strength for the future, who will carry the message. The most important thing in the environment is positive people!<\/p>\n

Imitating friends \u2013 why do we do it and how to adopt only good habits?<\/h2>\n

Why do we imitate friends? The answer is: \u201cthe power of the pack\u201d or the masses. Here\u2019s how. In the mass of feelings and ideas of the individual, they take the same direction, in fact, our conscious personality disappears. When our opinion, idea, or desire coincides with what our environment, our friends, think, we feel good. However, if the projections of our opinions, ideas or desires differ from our environment, that is, from our friends, we experience discomfort.<\/p>\n

Most people give up their true goals in order not to bounce off the masses or others, or to feel bad. And then we sacrifice ourselves, so that we are not alone in that. It really changes our needs, desires, wants and we sacrifice ourselves, for the sake of the majority, or friends, who do not see the uniqueness of our attitudes or ideas. It\u2019s an imitation of a friend! If this is repeated every time in society, we acquire the wrong habits and destroy the true creativity of creating the person we want to be and the life we \u200b\u200bimagine.<\/p>\n

In order to change that we need to get up, that is, to work on good habits. This definitely requires:<\/p>\n